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Welcome to Harmless

Self Harm Support at Harmless

Harmless is a user led organisation that provides a range of services about self harm including support, information, training and consultancy to people who self harm, their friends and families and professionals.

Harmless was set up by people who understand self harm and at the heart of our service is a real sense of hope. We know that with the right support and help life can get better. We hope that you find this site a safe and helpful resource.

Feel free to look around and we welcome your thoughts and feedback about our site and services. We would also encourage everyone who feels able to complete our self harm questionnaires as this will help us develop a better awareness of who is accessing Harmless and the kind of difficulties they face.

Funding for Self Harm Services

Harmless now deliver a range of services. We previously delivered these under contract with Nottinghamshire Heathcare Trust but these funds were lost due to the financial cuts. However, we still deliver monthly drop in sessions where people can get support and information about self harm and we offer one to one therapy sessions.

For more information or to volunteer your time and fundraising skills to keep these vital services going, please contact us.

The Harmless Advisory Group

We are always looking for people to join our advisory group, and to help out with all aspects of the project, for anyone who is interested in helping out in any way; click here if you'd like to support our efforts and help people who self harm for more details.

#selfharm is something people do;not something they are.It's something that can change,not an identity https://t.co/ZhB0ybafvr

RT @mhtodaymag: 'They are not a ‘self’-harmer’, they are a person with a name' https://t.co/mjwLIcslgR We speak to @HarmlessUK

RT @letstalknlearn: Self-Care Sundays, the day of rest, the day roasts! We would love to hear about your self care! https://t.co/gIZqNz4F5K…

Harmless Workbook: Working Through Self Harm Harmless Workbook

Available in an electronic format, Harmless have de­veloped this workbook in collaboration with service users, therapists and the Institute of Mental Health to provide a tool that can be used to promote recovery and self reflection amongst people that self harm, encouraging alternative methods of coping.

For more information, or to find out how to buy our workbook, please follow this link.

Out of Harm's Way DVD New DVD Available

New to Harmless: our DVD. Through the eyes of those with first hand experience, we examine the nature of self harm, distress and recovery. A resource both for those that self harm and for professionals.

To see an extract, or to learn how to order yourself a copy, please follow this link.

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Self-Care Sundays The day of rest, the day of roasts. This Sunday, why not take some time to look after yourself? Have brunch with a friend. Take the dog for a walk. Take your family to the park. Bake a cake and eat the whole thing (if you don’t cut it… it counts as one piece). Do some gardening. Treat yourself to a new outfit. Self care is so important. We often don’t take the time out we deserve. We put our needs aside and focus on someone else’s. Why don’t you simply devote this Sunday to loving yourself more? We would love to hear about your self care!
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Self-Care Sundays Posted on May 19, 2017 by Jack The day of rest, the day of roasts. This Sunday, why not take some time to look after yourself? Have brunch with a friend. Take the dog for a walk. Take your family to the park. Bake a cake and eat the whole thing (if you don’t cut it… it counts as on...

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This beautiful heart wrenching project is working to raise money for us whilst bringing comfort to others. Support us?
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I like to think of the Lovelock scarf as a hug to someone who needs it: a physical act of wrapping yourself or someone you care about in love. All pattern proceeds go to Harmless http://ow.ly/ozxe30aJJQY

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Mental Health Today – Wales #MHTWales17 Last week I was invited to speak at the Mental Health Today conference in Cardiff. I set off on the Tuesday afternoon to make my way and was greeted to Wales with sun filled valleys and lush, green hill tops- what a sight! As I entered Cardiff the scenery changed to a hive of activity, with tall buildings and busy people. I found my way through the traffic to my destination, the Premier Inn. With the extra excuse of it being Mental Health Awareness week I made sure I had a delicious hot meal and enjoyed a bubble bath with my first Lush (Handmade cosmetics) bath bomb. With approximately 400 people attending the conference I was excited to mingle and meet new faces. The day of the conference was one of inspiration and hope. So many people and so many experiences to share! One particular presentation from Cyfle Cymru really stuck out for me, with a service user sharing their story with us. He mentioned the importance of creating space to do the things we want to do and taking the time to understand what getting well meant. I felt this message was such an important one for all of us to take note of. If we are to thrive it is essential we let ourselves explore what this looks like and how it will be done. Before long it was my turn to present. Many people tell me I am confident when presenting, something I still struggle to accept after many years of managing my anxiety. As many of you may agree it is surprising just how much can go through your mind before you step up to speak. One of the last thoughts I had, whilst taking deep breaths and walking up to the stand, was how awe-inspiring it was to have so many people gathered together in one space all with the same mission to help improve the lives of those with mental health conditions- and I was lucky enough to contribute to this. The whole day radiated hope and drive for constant change and I look forward to experiencing more of this atmosphere again at our own National conference on the 1st March, From Harm to Hope. For more feedback on what took place at Mental Health Today and to read the interview I had on how best to support those who self harm please click below. For more information on our own conference, From Harm to Hope email: admin@harmless.org.uk
‘The biggest challenge for self-harm is the media’s inaccurate message’
Mental Health Today spoke to Sarah Kessling, a trainer from Harmless, about how best to support people who self-harm and what changes she wants from a new government …

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Barbecue & Blues Band Extravaganza @ The Cross Keys in Burton Joyce 28/05/2017 12:00 - 19:00 Fundraising event featuring "Webbo and the Soft Boys"... Main St, Burton Joyce, Nottingham NG14 5DX, UK (map)
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Self-Care Sundays Posted Friday 19th May 2017

The day of rest, the day of roasts. This Sunday, why not take some time to look after yourself? Have brunch with a friend. Take the dog for a walk. Take your family to the park. Bake a cake and …

Mental Health Today – Wales #MHTWales17 Posted Thursday 18th May 2017

Last week I was invited to speak at the Mental Health Today conference in Cardiff. I set off on the Tuesday afternoon to make my way and was greeted to Wales with sun filled valleys and lush, green hill tops- …

Barbecue & Blues Band Extravaganza @ The Cross Keys in Burton Joyce – 28th May 2017 from 12pm Posted Wednesday 17th May 2017

Everyone is welcome to come and chill at a Barbecue & Blues Band extravaganza, featuring “Webbo and the Soft Boys” at The Cross Keys, Burton Joyce on Sunday 28th May from 12 noon. There will be a fabulous menu be …